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SocaLuvinYardieGyal
Join Date: Oct 2005
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Originally Posted by VincyJam82
Because I have met several men (and I don't mean men I have been involved with) who have serious issues with showing affection. They'll tell their gf once that they love them... then expect the female to apply that all throughout the relationship. I mean feelings change, so it would be nice to have reassurance once in a while yes?
Or they won't kiss much or hold hands... I mean yes in their own little way they may truly love the female but it's as if they have problems showing it. Seeing as the majority of us are not psychic, it may not always be apparent.
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I don't doubt that many of us are not mind readers. As time goes on, I find that if a man likes you and you all are in the early stages of dating, and it sounds like GT's friend is at that stage, you will know. You won't be left to guess. In some way(big or small), he'll make sure you know. I see what you're saying about what happens as time goes on, but believe it or not, that usually comes from the fact that the guy is just not an affectionate guy. He may love you, but he doesn't use loving gestures to show you. To him, it's not a struggle or a problem. As far as he is concerned, that's not his thing and it may never be. But, in the early stages, when a man wants you, he'll make sure that you know, in some way, especially if sex is a possibility.
Last edited by Caribsun; 03-16-2006 at 09:28 PM..
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